In this most recent episode of Recovery ReLOVution, Dr. Gala Gorman, the host, teaches listeners how to set boundaries with their addicted loved one.
As Gorman explains, We need to set some realistic expectations for recovery . . . for you and your loved one. Its going to require you to do some things differently, including setting healthy boundaries with your addicted family member. And, it is not for sissies. Most recovery stakeholders are so focused on helping their addicted loved one get sober that theyre blindsided when sobriety turns to relapse. What kinds of things will you need to do differently?
In this episode, listeners will:
- Prioritize their own recovery and get educated
- Learn to set boundaries with their addicted loved one, which aids in their recovery
- Gain realistic expectations for recovery, and understand how to communicate shamelessly
Gorman refers to a recent article from a newspaper in Ohio, which talks about a man named Norm Zent. It says, Growing up, Norm Zent never imagined he could become a drug addict. His life was good. His family supported him and he did well in school. He enjoyed social drinking as a teenager, but he believed it was more than alcohol that led to his battle with substance use.
Zent says, I had an injury in high school playing football and ended up on a lot of pain medicine." The article explains that his experience with prescription medicine led him to experiment with harder drugs, including benzodiazepines, cocaine, and heroin. He says, "I honestly knew I was addicted at some level by the time I was 17 or 18, but I believed I could handle it." For the next 20 years, he struggled with substance use addiction, leading to stints in and out of rehab and run-ins with the law.
The article goes on to share that luckily, a couple of years ago, Zent came to the point where he was really ready to make a change. He says he was still on drugs, but he knew he didnt want to be anymore. He was hopeless and helpless out on the streets. But, he knew he needed to stop. Zent found a community program, and he also turned to AA. Those programs helped him and provided the support he needed to be able to stay sober long enough to start to turn his life around.
Gorman reminds listeners, Zent knew he was addicted at 17 or 18. At that time, while Im sure he was a real challenge for his parents and his family, he was still at the age where there was a lot of parental input possible. If you are dealing with a minor that is having this sort of issue, regardless of how much push back you get, you need to intervene if at all possible. It is important for parents to step in and question any sort of medication that their kids are being prescribed. Because this often leads to bigger escalating problems. If you have an opportunity to intervene, take your chance while youve got it.
The Recovery ReLOVution show was created with the aim in mind to help family and friends of addicts restore peace and sanity to their world. Listeners now have an alternative to doing the same thing expecting a different result the definition of insanity.
The show urges listeners to stretch themselves. The shows tagline reflects this. Love the Addict. Outsmart the Addiction. Listeners, primarily Recovery Stakeholders, will likely find a particular interest since its difficult to avoid shaming their addict loved one.
When asked why she created the show, Gorman said, Shaming just adds fuel to addictions fire. There is an alternative.
The shows host, Dr. Gala Gorman, is a holistic life coach and minister. She is the author of the Spiritual Approach TM Series of books focused on practical spirituality. As an entrepreneur mediator, publisher and, formerly, accounting firm partner, her experiences helped shape the creation of the show. As a change facilitator, she ignites transformation in businesses, families, students, clients and, especially, within herself.
Gorman has hopes that the show will help Recovery Stakeholders learn to set and hold effective boundaries to ignite positive change in themselves and their loved one who is struggling with addiction.
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